Ethical Non-Monogamy

The Signs

You're both unfulfilled Sexually!

That’s the bottom line.

You’ve been with your partner for a while now – things are going great, except for one thing.

When sex is happening, it feels like a tiny part of the relationship; but when it’s not, it feels like 90%— the source of your conflicts.

You love your partner, but you’re also left wondering what it would be like to open things up sexually.

Navigate Open Relationships with Expert Support

Professional counseling for couples exploring ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships in New York City and Indianapolis, Indiana.

It Plays An Important Role

Sex is your lifeblood.

You’ve seen other couples in open relationships, but you don’t think this is possible in your situation.

“This would never work for us,” is what you tell yourself. And then think, “but what if it did?”

You realize this has nothing to do with love and everything to do with sexual fulfillment and authentic expression.

Maybe you’re curious about experiences your current relationship can’t provide. Maybe you have desires that feel too vulnerable to share.

Maybe you’re wondering if there’s a way to honor both your love for your partner AND your need for sexual exploration.

We Are Sexual Beings. It's Who We Are.

Caught in a repetitive cycle

Often couples find us because they desire to address challenges they’re experiencing around sexual satisfaction and relationship fulfillment.

Most often, we see the lack of authentic sexual connection presents itself as the core issue.

Like you, they love their partner – the love runs deep, but they are not connecting sexually in ways that feel complete.

Opening up a relationship with other lovers can be extremely challenging. It requires both individuals to be radically honest in their communication and courageously authentic with themselves and each other.

Many couples have been exactly where you are but decide to end the relationship because they don’t believe there is any other option.

But there is.

Ethical non-monogamy isn’t about replacing your partner or fixing a broken relationship. It’s about creating space for sexual authenticity, exploration, and fulfillment while maintaining the love and commitment you share.

Understanding Ethical Non-Monogamy

What exactly are we talking about?

Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) encompasses various relationship structures where partners consensually engage with multiple people. Unlike infidelity, ethical non-monogamy is built on:

Radical honesty and transparent communication
Enthusiastic consent from all involved parties
Clear boundaries and mutually agreed-upon guidelines
Deep respect for all relationships and partners
Ongoing negotiation as needs and desires evolve

Common forms we work with include:

Open relationships – Primary partnership with outside sexual connections
Polyamory – Multiple loving, committed relationships
Swinging – Recreational partner swapping with other couples
Relationship anarchy – No hierarchical relationship structures
Solo poly – Independent individuals with multiple relationships
Kitchen table poly – All partners know and interact with each other

TAKE OUR HAND ON THIS JOURNEY

Let's Explore This Together…

When deciding to open a relationship, it can feel overwhelming – that’s exactly why it’s essential to find a therapist who not only understands but has extensive experience helping couples navigate this complex process successfully.

Our Specialized ENM Therapy Approach:

Comprehensive Relationship Assessment We begin with thorough evaluation of your relationship dynamics, sexual satisfaction, communication patterns, attachment styles.

This also includes individual needs to determine if ethical non-monogamy aligns with your authentic desires and relationship goals.

Comprehensive Boundary Setting & Agreement Creation Develop clear, detailed guidelines covering:

Sexual health protocols and STI testing schedules
Time and energy management between multiple relationships
Emotional boundaries and primary relationship protection
Dating rules and partner selection criteria
Communication expectations with metamours (partner’s partners)
Social media and privacy agreements

Advanced Communication Skills Development Learn essential skills for:

Vulnerable dialogue about desires, fears, and boundaries
Conflict resolution specific to non-monogamous challenges
Jealousy management and emotional regulation techniques
Consent negotiation with multiple partners
Difficult conversation navigation with grace and honesty

Experience freedom

like never before

What you’re experiencing is more common than you’d think, but it’s likely to be a minefield trying to maneuver through

it on your own without professional guidance.

Evidence-Based Treatment Methods We Use:

Parts Work through Internal Family Systems (IFS) (All Locations) Laike Rising Therapy uses IFS therapy with all clients to understand different aspects of yourself in non-monogamous relationships, helping integrate desires, fears, values, and authentic self-expression. He is pursuing Level 1 IFS training in November 2025.

Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) (Indianapolis Location – Coming 2025) Innovative therapy combining ketamine with psychotherapy to address deep-seated relationship patterns, trauma, and enhance emotional processing around intimacy and connection.

Heart-Centered Hypnotherapy As a Certified Hypnotherapist (CHT), Laike Rising uses hypnotherapy to access deeper emotional healing and break through unconscious patterns affecting relationships.

Comprehensive Sex Therapy Integration As a Certified Sex Therapist (CST), Dr. Mills-Malangone and the team provides specialized techniques for enhancing sexual satisfaction, addressing performance concerns, and exploring desires across multiple relationships safely and authentically.

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) Heal from relationship trauma, betrayal, and past wounds that may impact your ability to engage in healthy non-monogamous relationships.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Techniques Address anxiety, jealousy, negative thought patterns, and limiting beliefs that may interfere with healthy non-monogamy

Who We Help Navigate This Journey

You're not alone in this exploration

Couples considering opening their relationship for the first time
Existing non-monogamous couples facing unexpected challenges
Polyamorous individuals seeking relationship guidance and support
LGBTQ+ individuals and couples exploring ethical non-monogamy
Couples recovering from infidelity considering consensual alternatives
Singles interested in non-monogamous dating and relationship structures
Couples with mismatched libidos seeking creative solutions
Individuals questioning monogamy as their authentic relationship style
Couples dealing with sexual incompatibility while maintaining love
People in existing ENM relationships needing professional support

Why Choose Laike Rising Therapy for ENM Counseling?

Specialized Expertise: Dr. Richard Mills-Malangone (Ed.D, LCSW, CST, CHT) and his team brings extensive training in sex therapy, couples counseling, and alternative relationship structures with years of experience helping couples navigate ENM successfully.
Completely Judgment-Free Environment: We provide a safe, affirming space where all relationship styles are respected, supported, and celebrated.
LGBTQ+ Affirming Practice: Specialized experience with LGBTQ+ individuals and couples exploring non-monogamy, understanding unique challenges and opportunities.
Comprehensive, Integrated Approach: Seamless integration of sex therapy, couples counseling, individual therapy, parts foucused IFS, EMDR, and Heart-Centered Hypnotherapy as needed for your unique situation.
Advanced Treatment Options: IFS therapy currently available at all locations, with upcoming KAP services at our Indianapolis location for deeper therapeutic work and breakthrough healing.
Flexible Service Options: In-person sessions in NYC and Indianapolis, plus secure teletherapy for NY, NJ, IN, and FL residents.

Let's talk

About The Desire For Non-Monogamy.

During our first session, we will thoroughly explore your goals – identifying the core issues and other areas that could be impacting your relationship and individual well-being.

We are a team of skilled, experienced therapists specifically trained to work with couples considering an open relationship or those already navigating the complexities of ethical non-monogamy. We are here to guide you through this process with expertise, compassion, and non-judgment.

The next step is to schedule a FREE 15-minute consultation.

We want to get to know you, understand your unique situation, and answer any questions you have about ethical non-monogamy therapy. We look forward to walking on this journey with you toward greater authenticity, sexual fulfillment, and relationship satisfaction.

Questions?

We’re here to help you understand exactly how ethical non-monogamy therapy can support your relationship goals and personal growth. Contact us today to begin your journey toward greater sexual and relational fulfillment.

The next step is to schedule a FREE 15-minute consultation.

Ready to Transform Your Relationship?

"Change Starts With You" – and it starts with honest conversation.

Don’t navigate the complexities of ethical non-monogamy alone. Our specialized therapy provides the expert guidance, practical tools, and ongoing support you need to explore alternative relationship structures safely, successfully, and authentically.

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